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5 Incredible Traits of the Joker that Everyone Should Have

// August 23rd, 2008 // No Comments » // Personal Development

Spoiler Warning – This post might contain spoilers for The Dark Knight

The Joker in The Dark Night invokes intense emotions. He is quite the force for Batman to fight because of his overwhelming personality. But, the question comes to mind what makes the Joker so successful? He might be the villain, but I find many admirable things about him. Here is a list of traits that each of us might take note of.

1.    Money doesn’t buy happiness

The moment I saw the Joker burn his money I knew there was a deep lesson in him. Can you ever say that you would do that? Now, we must remember the Joker was a wee bit insane; however the Joker showed that his actions provided enough pleasure rather than the profit. He had found his calling in life which gave him enough happiness that money couldn’t buy. He only needed the little things in life (bullets and explosives). Is there anything in your life that you would be willing to not make much money doing? Could you follow your dream of photography if it meant that you would only be making enough to live on? Your dreams might cost you money, but they might make you far happier than money.

2.    Passion

Passion separates the novice from the expert. This is the secret ingredient to success. If you are passionate (obsessed) enough then you can achieve it. The Joker easily shows his passion to cause chaos. He has nothing else to do but cause chaos. He doesn’t work 9 to 5 and save his trouble making time until the weekend. He drops everything and follows his dream. He lives for the games he plays. He is able to do anything because he is passionate enough to do anything to achieve his goals. When have you found something to be that passionate about? Did you drop –everything- for it? It seems unrealistic to give up life for a passion, but look around you. The Olympics are almost over, but each of those people has a passion. They do try to train for the Olympics after work. They don’t only devote an hour a day to training. They go full force, and they become the best in the world. The same is true for people like Bobby Fischer. He didn’t play chess a few games a day. He lived for chess. When he wasn’t playing chess, he was thinking about chess. Imagine what you could do if you were that passionate with something you love


3.    Best to not try if you will give up

The Joker doesn’t decide to give up once he is thrown in jail. He doesn’t give up when he can’t seem to get to Batman. He keeps on trying. He states that he will keep up this game with Batman until the end. He doesn’t allow setbacks to deter him. He gets foiled, but he just gets up with a laugh and goes out to do it again. Failure is just a process that leads to success if you keep trying. You can’t expect to succeed in every endeavor the first time; instead you can expect to gain ground if you keep trying.  You lose a game, so play again and you keep playing until you win.  If you are thinking of starting your own business then you have to be able to take the failures. You will have to keep adjusting until you start making a profit. Failure isn’t forever.

4.    Creativity can go a long way

You can’t expect to cause terror in a whole city with a simple gun or shooting. You have to do things that aren’t expected and will be exciting. This is how the best people will make success for them. They make a new path. Robbing a bank? Why not use a school bus to blend in. If the Joker would have used a normal getaway then he would have been caught. The best things are possible if you are able to be creative and apply new ideas to old techniques. You can make money from home, so why not think of a creative way to make more money from home. Perhaps you find a better product to market from home. You have to set yourself from the rest of the group in order to achieve more.  You have to find creative ways to achieve your dreams, because sometimes you won’t have the choice otherwise. You can’t afford to spend a month in Europe? Get creative and decide to  get a contact in Europe and offer your services, such as finding a person that needs someone to clean their house and they have an extra room. You have enough money to eat on and entertain yourself, but the cost of finding a room is harder. You just solved that problem with a creative approach instead of just getting a cheap hotel room. Find a new path when everyone else is treading the same old path.

5.    A laugh can go a long way

An article about the Joker isn’t complete without mentioning laughter. He doesn’t get stressed out. He finds the fun in each situation. He is so entertaining because he is always in a joking mood. This is his character, but it makes sense. He is able to have fun and play his games. He truly enjoys what he does, which is shown. He can laugh when others wouldn’t laugh. He can laugh in the face of death. He always finds a reason to have a laugh. I think we could all use a little laughter a bit more. If we take ourselves too seriously then we will miss enjoying life. You are wasting your life being depressed when you could be happy. You can still find the funny things in the worst situations. Life is funny, so why so serious?

I am not suggesting that anyone should try to copy the Joker. His actions aren’t admirable, but his personality traits are something that should be examined. He is able to be the villain that you can’t help but feel in awe of. He does a better job than Batman in invoking emotion, I think. So, think a little about these traits and see if you can apply any to your life. Go out and find your passion, and please have a laugh while doing it.

List of 50 goals

// August 22nd, 2008 // 3 Comments » // Personal Development

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List of Goals

Goals are the spice of life, and I often would spend hours searching the internet to find new and interesting goals. I came to find out that most people are pretty similar in the goals in their life. Financial Freedom is a big one. No one wants to hate their job, and many would prefer to live without a job. Travel is quite popular, but this is hard for those making a low income. Many of the goals that I saw required travel, such as seeing the pyramids in Egypt, karaoke in Japan, viewing the northern lights. I tried to come up with goals that could be done at home, but I will admit I have a lust to travel as much as the next person so I felt I have to add a few. One other thing I saw was that goals were mostly related to doing something instead of achieving something. Anyone can skydive (Maybe not anyone, but if I can do it then I bet a lot of others can) but not everyone speak in front of a thousand people comfortably. Speaking in front of people seems to me more of an achievement rather than just a task. I wanted to add more tasks that focus on improvement of you, but I couldn’t resist all the fun things that can be done too.

These are a list of goals that I would do, actually I hope I do all of these someday. This is meant as a way to get you motivated to create your own list. When I see a list of goals, it just makes me motivated to make and achieve my own. I tried to make the goals as measurable as possible, since this means a higher chance that the goal will be done. An example would be having the goal to stop procrastinating, instead a better goal is write down the things that need to be done and spend an approximate amount of time doing each item. So, here is a few that might get you started.

  • Graduate from College
  • Backpack in Southeast Asia during one summer (or any other prolonged period of time)
    Read one book every two weeks ( This is easier while in school, but it takes a little motivation outside of school)

  • Save 50 dollars a month until I can afford more than 50 a month. (At the moment I only have enough to save 50 dollars a month, but this will go up as I get higher paying jobs. I am just a poor college student at the moment)
  • Wake up at 5:00 am every day of the week.
  • Replace all negative thoughts with positive ones (A bit vague, but you get the point)
  • Eat a raw food diet
  • Exercise 3 days a week for the rest of my life.
  • Finish a Marathon
  • Skydive
  • Write a list of 100 things that inspire happiness (Try to do one of them daily!)
  • Have at least a short conversation with a new person every 3 days (Outside of work)
  • Be able to hold a conversation for 10 minutes in two languages other than English comfortably
  • Interact with someone daily without being face to face (This could be a forum online or a post card across the world Post Crossing.)
  • Go Snowboarding (You fall a lot the first time, but it’s awesome once you get going!)
  • Do something that scares you daily (Talk to that girl, travel without a plan, quit your day job)
  • Compliment someone daily (It must be sincere)
  • Learn to swim (Shocking, but I don’t know how to do this.)
  • Live without a T.V. (I don’t watch any T.V, but I like to watch movies and play a few games occasionally)
  • Make a list of movies that make you happy (This might seem unproductive, but it could help your mood! )
  • Meditate every single day (ohm)
  • Commute by Bike 3 times a week (Hopefully more, and by bus the other days)
  • Clean the whole house, and then have the each item in the same spot before bed
  • Finally get started with GTD(Getting Things Done)
  • Make a positive impact on someone’s life so they may achieve their goals.
  • Go green with having every major item in my house energy efficient (Washer, Computer, Toilet, etc)
  • Have one extraordinary experience that I can share with someone that will shock them (This is a little harder, but it gives motivation to do the most with each day)
  • Ride a camel into the desert
  • Write a email/letter to someone that is semi-famous inquiring about something ( I say semi-famous because I hope for a response which might not happen with someone that is too famous.)
  • Write down my Most Important Things each day that shall be achieved by the end of the day (Direction in your day helps!)
  • Own one extremely nice suit (or some very nice formal attire for the girls reading. You never know when you will need it. You could need a suit quickly to meet with someone)
  • Join Toastmasters (Or some other way to practice public speaking, which can be a vital skill)
  • Climb a great pyramid in Egypt, and take a picture at the top
  • Photograph an endangered species
  • Participate in Burning Man (Burning Man happens (August 25 – September 1st, 2008) the last week of August every year at Black Rock City, the third largest city in Nevada for one week a year.)
  • Visit a temple, and live like a monk for a month
  • Memorise the poem “If…” by Rudyard Kipling
  • Learn how to lucid dream (My night life should be exciting too)
  • Build a dream house that would be worthy of being featured on The Cool Hunter
  • Experience homelessness for at least a month (I would suggest longer to get the full experience, but this is hard.)
  • Sleep a night in a snow fort I built.
  • Surround yourself with only positive people
  • Help someone daily (This may be large or small. Simply picking up something that someone dropped or as large as jumping in your car to go pick up a friend that needs you.)
  • Volunteer and make a commitment for a year
  • Publish a book (About what? I don’t know. When? No idea. I just want to be able to reach a lot of people and hopefully improve one life)
  • Have a job that is enjoyable each day
  • Live without a car
  • Meet someone that has changed a country (or world. These people include the Dalai Lama, President of a country, etc)
  • Run mile in five minutes
  • Learn one dance and use it
  • Learn Photoshop and make a picture that invokes a smile